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Over the past few years, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about online dating and how it has changed the way we build relationships. Like many people, I started using dating apps out of convenience. It felt like the easiest way to meet new people in a busy world where work and everyday routines leave little room for spontaneous connections.

At first, online dating seemed exciting. New conversations, different personalities, and the feeling that something meaningful could start at any moment. But over time, I noticed how quickly interactions can become shallow. People often disappear without explanation, and it’s not always clear what anyone is truly looking for. This can be frustrating and, at times, emotionally exhausting.

One thing I’ve learned is the importance of honesty — both with others and with myself. Being clear about expectations early on saves a lot of confusion. I’ve also realized that moving beyond endless messaging is essential. A short video call or a real-life meeting can quickly show whether there’s genuine chemistry or not.

Despite the challenges, I don’t see online dating as a failure. I’ve met thoughtful and interesting people through it, even if not every connection turned into a long-term relationship. For me, online dating is just a tool — it works best when used with patience, boundaries, and realistic expectations.

I’m curious how others here feel. Have your experiences been mostly positive or negative? What lessons has online dating taught you about relationships and yourself?